Vanessa Grubbs March 15, 2014 dialysis, my family, shared decision-making what to expect Vanessa Grubbs March 15, 2014 dialysis, my family, shared decision-making A month ago my baby—my 6-foot 14-year-old baby—broke his size 14 left foot (his 5thmetatarsal—the long bone under the pinkie toe) while playing basketball.