biased research

I am a woman of my word. At least I try to be. Ten years ago, when I said to Robert, my boyfriend at the time, “We should try to see if I can give you a kidney,” as we sat in a clinic exam room for his transplant evaluation appointment, I wasn’t just talking.

big black boy

My son, Avery, is the color of caramel. He is 15 years old, stands nearly 6 feet 2 inches tall and weighs almost 200 pounds. He is a Big. Black. Boy. Because Avery is a big black boy, when we moved a couple of years ago, one of my first tasks was to parade him around our new neighborhood. Smile and wave, I told him, so they know you belong here.

He's just not that into you

I remember watching Greg Behrendt on Oprah and then the movie version of his book “He’s Just Not That Into You” with great interest. As a woman, the message resonated with me. I’ve made many if not most if not all the mistakes Behrendt points out that most women tend to make in search of “the one”.